If you're anything like (the old) me, then you may have been sort of jealous of a confession of an anorexic that they ate only melba toast, carrots & black coffee for 4-6 months at a time. Hell, if you've ever been obese you know that the go through times when it's hard to eat less than 4000 calories a day! To have that kind of will power is admirable, right? Um, wrong-o.
Really, anorexia & morbid obesity are equally as bad...If you look at eating/health habits on a continuum, it may look something like this:
- Anorexia
- Bulimia
- Struggling to eat enough
- Restrictive Diet
Eating to Live
- Overeating
- Overweight
- Obesity
- Morbid Obesity
No one wants to be in the fringe. Let's for a second think about the life of an anorexic--they have the same shame as those of us who overeat, they know they have bad eating habits, but different from us, they seemingly get lots of attention, 'good attention' told they look great, idolized by most mainstream magazines, and unless they become 'bony' most friends and family members will continue to give them positive attention for their body. On some levels I think it may be harder to change in that climate, whereas there are so many more resources and ways to get positive attention when you are losing weight.
Fundamentally, we all want the same thing...we want food to be something that sustains our bodies, and isn't tied to emotional issues. To have food be a non-issue in our lives is a huge goal for both anorexics and morbidly obese people. We are not enemies, but allies. We can learn from one another and support one another.
Alanis Morissette's recent interview with December's issue of Health Magazine (on newstands Nov. 24th) and CNN shows a confident, strong, self-actualized woman who has overcome her issues with food & can now concentrate on the things that are really important to her, 'integrating all the parts of me -- jock, musician,
writer, poet, philosopher -- and becoming stronger as a result.'
I applaud Ms. Morissette for sharing her story and her journey & hope more people can come to experience the success she has, regardless of where they fall on the eating spectrum!
See the CNN article below:
(CNN) -- Alanis Morissette was the definition of
"fierce" when she arrived on the American music scene with one of the
big break-up songs of the '90s, "You Oughta Know." But behind that
tough exterior were secrets of a difficult past.
"As a teen, I
was both anorexic and bulimic," Alanis Morissette recently told Health
magazine for its December issue. "I was a young woman in the public
eye, on the receiving end of a lot of attention, and I was trying to
protect myself from men who were using their power in ways I was too
young to know how to handle."
By the time Morissette was 14, she
had already starred in a popular Canadian children's show, started her
own record label and had a publishing contract with MCA Canada,
according to her Web site.
"Disappointment, sadness and pain hit
me hard, and I tried to numb those feelings through my relationship
with food. For four to six months at a time, I would barely eat. I
lived on a diet of Melba toast, carrots, and black coffee," she said.
"I began recovering at 18, when a sweet friend confronted me."
Now that she's older, Morissette,
35, said she's no longer starving herself and has begun to look at
eating as "a sort of spiritual practice." Her healthier view of food
and nutrition is thanks in no small part to a book she discovered a few
years ago called "Eat to Live."
"It's become my bible, pushing
me to completely reorient my thinking about what to put into my body.
... Now I concentrate on eating high-nutrient foods like fruit, nuts,
collards, kale and spinach. I'm obsessed with them. I even put spinach
in my smoothies," the Canadian musician admitted.
The seven-time
Grammy Award winner has also sworn off dairy, on a tip from Woody
Harrelson, no less. "Woody Harrelson [told] me I needed to get rid of
the dairy in my fridge to clear up my skin," she said.
It's had a positive effect: Morissette said her skin "looks great now."
But
all of that health consciousness doesn't mean Morissette has lost
appreciation for the more delectable things in life. "Don't get me
wrong," she said in the interview, "I still indulge in a glass of wine
or chocolate -- treats are mandatory. Without deviating from the
day-to-day healthy diet once in a while, it wouldn't be sustainable for
me, and that's what I wanted: an approach to eating to last my entire
life."
Resolving her issues with food and body image has helped Morissette to develop clarity in other areas of her life as well.
"I'm
really clear about what my life mission is now. There's no more
depression or lethargy, and I feel like I've returned to the athlete I
once was. I'm integrating all the parts of me -- jock, musician,
writer, poet, philosopher -- and becoming stronger as a result," she
said.
"I hope my effort shows any woman battling an eating disorder
or poor body image that she's not alone -- support is out there -- and
inspires her to discover her inner athlete. It doesn't matter what your
fitness-skill level is."
Health magazine's December issue hits newsstands November 24.
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